The point to this story is that I LOVE HONEST PEOPLE. Yes someone from the outside looking in may have thought it was rude but I simply thought it was HILARIOUS.
My favorite people in the whole wide world are people who like to laugh, people who like to have fun, people who are rather uninhibited and people who are brutally honest. Even if your brutal honesty hurts sometimes, when you are brutally honest it makes it so much easier for me to trust you. And I don't just mean, honest with me and then being a coward and lying to everyone else. I mean having the courage to be in your truth and stand in your truth as much as possible with everyone. I like people who are consistently the same no matter the environment. Yes okay you have to perhaps have a certain level of decorum in a business meeting vs church vs a library but I just really really love and adore people who are authentic, are true to themselves and really love themselves without shame.
Yes there are times to be polite, times where a lie may be necessary for whatever reason. I get it. All I'm saying is that some of my most favorite people in the whole wide world are people who boldly speak their truth even at times when I may disagree. I may be hurt for a few minutes but I'll get over it way faster than if you are a liar, can't speak your mind, and hold back how you really feel. Being hurt for a few minutes is better than me not trusting you for a lifetime.
Sometimes this means then that I end up being around people who are a little bit assholey, especially guys, because I just don't have any respect for men who can't stand up for themselves, be truthful and speak their minds. They seem like wimps to me. So when I see a guy blasting people with his truth, even if he comes off not as nice at first, I am kind of like heeeeyyyyy...nice to meet cha. His confidence, boldness and honesty is really refreshing and quite frankly a turn-on.
"Honesty is a great quality every single person should have but it’s often not that easy to find. A real honest man will tell you the truth and not just what you want to hear. An honest man will not use sleazy stories to get away from things or to look good, but he will tell you what he will do and how he feels about something. It’s true that brutal honesty can be offensive sometimes but it’s better to have a guy that tells you the truth than one that fills you with lies"
So go ahead and give it to me baby. Tell me the truth and I'll probably love you for it...long time. :D