Unfortunately, since I've been around quite a few people who are not smart when it comes to business issues, they don't have an concept of the value I bring to the table. I have gotten burned too many times helping people by giving them my services and skills that would cost them thousands of dollars if they actually had to hire me and pay full value. Meanwhile, they like to sweat me in return and make me pay them for everything including small shit like a $2 bottle of water or a $10.00 ticket.
As a side note, I must say that some of you guys really need to get your shit together. A dude constantly asking a woman for a ride and to buy them things is not sexy AT ALL. Like you would not believe how many guys I've worked with trying to be nice who then ask me for a ride and then a kiss. EWWW like seriously what kind of woman wants to be driving Mr. Daisy? It's unbelievable the audacity. I wonder if it is because musicians, dancers, entertainers are seen to be more attractive by women and therefore women lower their standards or something? Like ladies do you really fall for this? I suppose that since I'm an entertainer myself I'm not all that star struck and I still expect men to be masculine and manly. I mean really man, GET A CAR and drive me around. Shit.
Anyway. I've learned my lesson in 2015 I am putting all my energy and focus into using my business skills, resources and talents to help my own damn self first and I'm not fuckin with no more moochy people. I really really hate people who mistake my kindness for weakness and think they are getting over on me. It never works and it's so funny because the Universe always has a funny way of giving people who fuck with me very bad karma.
Anyway. Moochers be gone in 2015! If our relationship isn't give and take you can take your ass on and get the hell out of my life.
In this regard, I recently made the following post to my Facebook:
There are some people in the world who will make jabs trying to say that I'm all about money. Those same idiots are the clowns always asking to borrow money, buy shit for them, drive them around or to do them a special favor. Never ever coming out of their pocket for shit; never ever offering jack in return. Some of these cheap selfish bastards never even offer gas money but have no problem hitting me up for a ride. Same people who always take take take and never want to give. Same people who ask me to help them on a business need but their stingy ass is always nickeling and diming sweating me to pay for every little thing. So then if I'm all about money, then why can't you be about yours and stay the fuck up out of my wallet? And if you ask me to help you on a business need, understand that I spent MANY years going to school and working in corporate America (http://www.nicoledford.com/profile.html) and if I do something business wise to help you, that shit is WAY MORE VALUABLE than the bullshit you are on. If you want to be stingy and claim I'm all about money, then keep it simple and don't fuckin' ask me to do shit for you then. #fuckmoochers#selfishpeoplehavenorealfriendsonlycodependents